Bride’s MIL Gives Unwanted Speech at Wedding, Bride Refuses to Listen, Husband Sides with His Mom. What Should She Do Now?

Though a tradition, wedding speeches don’t appeal to a lot of people these days. But is it justified to ignore someone’s speech at your wedding?

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Bride’s MIL Gives Unwanted Speech at Wedding, Bride Refuses to Listen, Husband Sides with His Mom. What Should She Do Now?

Though a tradition, wedding speeches don’t appeal to a lot of people these days. But is it justified to ignore someone’s speech at your wedding?

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