Seriously, if some woman isn’t interested in you, move on and don’t go all out to impress them. That and if you are fine financially, don’t listen to other
Avoid the elderly people who offer you beer in the trailer park your family just moved into. The old woman will offer you meth without either of you knowing what it was and you’ll be addicted for the next 8 year
Don’t feel so indebted to people, don’t work so hard, look for healthy relationships (including platonic) where you just make each other happy