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15 Simple Things Women Expect From Guys At Bars

Folks hit bars for fun. Women may expect more from men to enhance their experience. So, “What do women expect from guys at bars?” Let's see the top responses.

GIVE A PIECE OF CHEESE

“You may fascinate a woman by giving her a piece of cheese.”

WOMEN DON’T EXPECT STRANGERS TO DO ANY SPECIFIC THINGS

“I don’t think women (or anyone) go to the bar expecting strangers to do anything specific except drink and hang out with their friends?”

BE GENUINE AND FRIENDLY

"As a bartender, what works best is authenticity and friendliness. Not all women at a bar are there for the same reason or open to meeting someone new. Enjoy your time and don't stress about each interaction."

EVERYONE IS ON A DIFFERENT JOURNEY

"I don't expect anything at a bar, I'm there to hang out and have fun. Sometimes, I make friends. I don't trust those who seem to want something from me."

COMMENT ON SOMETHING THAT IS IN MY CONTROL

"I noticed those who commented on my hair, clothes, etc., and seemed genuinely interested in getting to know me, not those who immediately invaded my personal space."

FREE DRINKS

“I’m a bartender in a small town, and honestly, what I have seen is just free drinks and a little talk or nothing at all.”

SHOW YOUR COLORFUL PLUMAGE

“Show your colorful plumage, dance around in circles, and build a spot for the woman with a pile of recently gathered driftwood.”

PUT ON A JESTER CAP

“Put on a jester cap and your finest shoes, do a little jig, and sing a little song.”

TREAT ME LIKE ANY OTHER PERSON

“Honestly, treat me like you would any other person. I’m an alcoholic. I’m at the bar to drink.”

WOMEN AT BARS JUST WANT TO BE LEFT IN PEACE

"As a bouncer, I observe women at bars often prefer solitude. However, some may appreciate a man able to decipher their subtle cues."

DON’T GROPE OR INTIMIDATE THEM

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DON’T BE UGLY OR CRINGE

“Don’t be ugly. Don’t be too cringe. Then talk to them.”

DON’T PRESSURE THEM

“Don’t try to pressure me. If I like you, we’ll hit it off. Oh, and don’t try to drug me. I’ve got my drugs, and we can do them together.”

JUST HAVE A CONVERSATION

"Start a conversation. If interested, ask for her number. If unsure, still ask. Exchange numbers if affirmative. If no, enjoy your night. If she looks disappointed as you leave, invite her. It's simple."

BE GOOD LOOKING

“Be extremely good-looking. The rest will take care of itself.”

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