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Woman Snaps As Friends’s Husband “Body Shames” Her for Postpartum Weight. Says “She Just Had A Baby, What’s Your Excuse!” Asks If She Crossed A Line.

Making fun of someone’s body is really mean, and if you see it happening, you should speak up against it.

The Original Poster (OP) took it to the forum, and asked “Am I wrong for mocking my friend’s husband’s weight?”. We want to know from you.

BACKSTORY

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OP’s best friend Jenny just had a baby with her husband, Tom.

OP and her boyfriend got to meet their baby boy for the first time when Jenny and her husband came over to their place for dinner last week.

HOT TUB

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OP and her boyfriend received a hot tub from OP’s parents for Christmas, which is why they told Jenny and her husband to bring swimwear.

WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?

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OP’s boyfriend didn’t want to get into the pool, which is why he was responsible for holding Jenny’s baby while the other three were getting ready to get into the pool.

GETTING READY FOR THE POOL

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Jenny was the last one to get changed. She wore a bikini, and OP thought that Jenny looked beautiful as always.

WHAT DID TOM SAY?

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After seeing Jenny in a bikini, Jenny’s husband, Tom, said that she still needed to do a lot of work to get back to how she used to look before her pregnancy.

WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?

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After hearing Tom’s remarks, Jenny got highly uncomfortable, even though she wasn’t vocal about it.

JENNY WAS SELF-CONSCIOUS

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A few days earlier, Jenny expressed concern about her increasing weight to OP. And she was struggling to lose weight after her pregnancy.

WHAT DID OP DO?

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OP instantly jumped in and defended her best friend. She told Tom, “Jenny just had a child; what’s your excuse?”.

WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?

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Tom instantly offended and told OP she needed to learn to take a joke. Before leaving for their home, Tom pulled OP aside and told her to keep her nose out of their matters in the future.

OP asks if she is a jerk for defending her friend after she was called out for being overweight by her husband.

WHAT DO PEOPLE THINK?

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“Insulting your partner in front of other people deserves a calling out. Good for you, OP. Keep fighting the good fight.

YOU DID GOOD

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The only way to stop a bully is to throw whatever they’re giving right back in their smug face. We cannot tolerate the intolerable. Love y’all, stay safe.”, said one user.

IT’S NOT PRIVATE ANYMORE

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“He can’t claim it’s a private matter when he said it right in front of you.”, said another user.

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