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He Is Furious As Brother Says “You Need To Upgrade Your Life To Get A Woman You Desire”; Mom Wants Him To Apologize. We Think He Said The Truth.

We all have those moments where we say something and then immediately regret it. We wonder if we overreacted, or if we said something that we didn’t mean. This is a common experience, and it’s nothing to be ashamed of.

The Original Poster (OP) took it to the forum, and asked “Am I wrong for telling my brother that he is undateable?”. Read the complete story to know who is wrong here.

BACKSTORY

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OP’s brother Bill had been trying online dating for three years with no success.

WHAT IS THE MAIN ISSUE?

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They stay in a rural area, which is why there are not many single women around. And the ones that are single, didn’t interest Bill much.

WHAT DID BILL WANT OP TO DO?

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Bill asked OP to edit his Hinge profile so that he could attract more females.

WHAT DID OP SEE?

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OP went through his profile and found out exactly why he didn’t attract a decent girl yet. His profile had paragraphs written on it about what he is looking for in a woman. 

HE WENT INTO EXTREME DETAILS

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The requirements that he had mentioned over there were a little too extra according to OP. Starting from how she should look to how much money she should make, everything was mentioned. 

WHAT DID OP FEEL ABOUT IT?

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OP’s instant thoughts were if these are the things he was looking for in a girl, he needed to upgrade his life first.

WHAT’S BILL’S OCCUPATION?

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Bill works at Walmart as a door-greeter (a job that is usually offered to old people for keeping them involved and busy. 

WHAT DID OP SAY TO BILL?

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OP told Bill that he should either delete these requirements that he had mentioned earlier or should simply upgrade his own life first.

That is because the kind of girl he said he was looking for would never be interested in a guy who lives off of his parents and works as a door greeter.

WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?

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OP’s brother got offended and told their mom about what OP said to him. Their mother got upset as well, and she now wants OP to apologize to her brother.

OP wants to know if she is a jerk for saying this to her brother and whether she should apologize to him.

WHAT DO PEOPLE THINK?

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“People need to be harsh sometimes. How are you a Walmart greeter asking for a high income woman? Delusional!”, said one user.”

HE RAN TO HIS MOMMY

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“The guy ran to his mommy because somebody said something mean to him and all the other stuff screams that his maturity level is severely stunted.”, said another user.

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